What is a true local church?
Many students and families, now more than ever, are asking “What is the point of church anyway?” A lot of people get the importance of knowing God or honoring God, and many even understand the point of trusting Jesus to pay for your sin and give you forgiveness. Those individual commitments are all very biblical, but sometimes the group commands of scripture are ignored like “Do not forsake gathering together” (Hebrews 10:25) or that ‘through the church, the manifold wisdom of God should be made known…” (Ephesians 3:10) and other great truths about the Church as Gods’ mouthpiece to a lost world.
Still, I get so many people asking “Why is the church so important, again?” or “Why do I really need a local church, when I can just believe in God on my own, and my family?” I usually reply this way before going to more scripture; “Do you have a family you belong to?” “Why don’t you simply live life on your own?” “Why do you choose to stay in the same home with your family?” or for single people i ask “You have a family you belong to, right?” “How much could I pay you to disown your family?” Usually the weird looks all end up communicating something like “I would never think of living away from or leaving my family. I love them, and they are the biggest reason why I live.” or something like that.
And then I ask “Do you think God would want to provide you with a spiritual family, of men, women, teens and kids who also want to worship and serve Jesus with you?” Usually the smart ones get this analogy and are then ok with that, but for the confused-looking ones I add “Do you think it would be easier to worship and serve Jesus alone, or with other people helping you to do that on a daily basis?” usually this clears up any confusion and people get it…BUT WE REALLY DONT GET IT IF WE ARE HONEST.
Oh, we say we understand the importance of belonging to a church family, but come Sunday morning, or evening, or any other day of the week for that matter….when it comes time to choose to be with our spiritual family or choose to be with ourselves or our own families (or football pre-game shows), we will glady make an excuse to not fellowship with the church. It’s even easier to avoid church, when we know we will actually have to talk to people who may ask us questions about real life and stuff that matters most. We (myself included) have missed the real definition of a true local group of believers who gather as ‘the church’. Jesus and Paul do a great job of explaining what a true local church is, and how a true follower of Jesus needs to be deeply involved in one…but are we willing to be corrected by the scripture, or define church on our own?
So heres a diagram I give to students and families, (or anyone) who is interested in seeing the beauty and benefit of belonging to a real local church family.

I’d like to think someone out there would benefit from my ramblings, but this comes from a couple years of studying in the book of Acts, and Pauls letters, alongside some key teaching moments from Jesus on the Church. Feel free to fire back thoughts, questions, or concerns you may have with anything you see here. My hope is that you would see the dignity and care that God has given you, and the hope that He has that you would reject a selfish life and follow Jesus into a local church. Contrary to what you may have heard, there are real people with real issues still wanting to come together and worship a real Jesus who cares.
